Speaking that meets people at the deepest question
Keynotes, retreats, and workshops rooted in 30 years of clinical experience, Christian faith, and the Ona Question.
The central framework
Every talk begins with the Ona Question
After 30 years of sitting with people in their deepest pain, Dr. Miller has found that one question cuts through everything — the defenses, the theology, the self-protection — and reaches the person underneath.
"What would the version of you already safe, loved, and at peace in Heaven say to the suffering version of you now?" — The Ona Question
Whether he's speaking at a marriage retreat, a church conference, or a counseling summit, this question is the doorway — and Dr. Miller has spent decades learning how to walk audiences through it.
Signature Topics
What Dr. Miller Speaks On
"Am I Enough?" — The Question Everyone's Afraid to Ask
Why every human longs for love and intimacy above all else — and why we're terrified we're not worthy of it. A talk rooted in two fundamental principles that unlock lasting peace.
Am I Worth Being Loved?
For couples retreats and marriage conferences. The most simple, elegant, and practical marriage theory. Based upon Dr. Miller’s Second Non-Fiction Book.
The Ona Question: A Conversation With Your Future Self
A powerful thought experiment that invites audiences to hear from the version of themselves already safe and at peace — and let that voice reshape how they face suffering today. Based upon Dr. Miller’s upcoming novel.
Infidelity, Betrayal, and the Road Back
Drawing from 30 years of clinical work with couples, Dr. Miller speaks honestly about what it takes to heal after betrayal — for both partners.
Finding Peace in Life's Storms
How faith and practical psychology work together to address depression, grief, and loss. Based on decades of frontline work and Dr. Miller's published book.
Where Dr. Miller Speaks
Ideal for:
Churches & sermon series
Marriage retreats & couples conferences
Men's groups & retreats
Christian counseling conferences & CEU workshops
Pastoral training events
Corporate wellness & resilience keynotes
About
Dr. Monte Miller
Licensed Clinical Psychologist · San Antonio, TX
Dr. Monte Miller, with his Master’s and Doctoral Degrees in Psychology, plus with 30 years of experience specializing in infidelity recovery, sex therapy, performance anxiety, depression, and Christian psychology. He has worked extensively with couples navigating betrayal and individuals wrestling with the deepest human fear: Am I enough to be loved?
Drawing from decades of clinical work, personal experience with loss and reconciliation, and deep Christian faith, Dr. Miller developed the Ona Question — a transformative framework that has reshaped how thousands of people see themselves, their marriages, and their relationship with God.
He is the author of Finding Peace in Life's Storms, with a set of three books forthcoming.
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