Professional and Personal Speaking that meets people at their deepest question
Dr. Monte Miller holds both a Master's degree and a Doctoral degree in Psychology — bringing both rigorous academic training and 35 years of frontline clinical experience to every speaking engagement."
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Finding Peace in Life’s Storms
Three More Books at ¾ Development
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B.A. Psychology Texas A&M
M.A. Psychology Wheaton College
Psy.D. Our Lady of the Lake
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20 Years in Nursing Home Work
Trauma Recovery
Death and Dying Counseling
Health Psychology
Professional Staff Training
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High School and College Ministry with Young Life
Majority of Clinical Work seen as personal ministry
Men’s Ministry Leader
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Loss of Mother at age 16
Vast Marital Experiences
Various Significant Life Traumas
Have Lived Out My Own Theories on Faith, Marital and Mental Health Development
Numerous Entertaining Stories to Share on Stage
SPEAKING BACKGROUND
Speaker at professional conferences and clinical training sessions
Led a men's group of 200 men for a full year
Taught men's classes on Christian Apologetics and Evangelism, and
Authentic Manhood
Facilitated John Eldredge's Wild at Heart men's series
The central framework
Every talk begins with the Ona Question
After 30 years of sitting with people in their deepest pain, Dr. Miller has found that one question cuts through everything — the defenses, the theology, the self-protection — and reaches the person underneath.
"What would the version of you already safe, loved, and at peace in Heaven say to the suffering version of you now?" — The Ona Question
Whether he's speaking at a marriage retreat, a church conference, or a counseling summit, this question is the doorway — and Dr. Miller has spent decades learning how to walk audiences through it.
Signature Topics
What Dr. Miller Speaks On
"Am I Enough?" — The Question Everyone's Afraid to Ask
Why every human longs for love and intimacy above all else — and why we're terrified we're not worthy of it. A talk rooted in two fundamental principles that unlock lasting peace.
Am I Worth Being Loved?
For couples retreats and marriage conferences. The most simple, elegant, and practical marriage theory. Based upon Dr. Miller’s Second Non-Fiction Book.
The Ona Question: A Conversation With Your Future Self
A powerful thought experiment that invites audiences to hear from the version of themselves already safe and at peace — and let that voice reshape how they face suffering today. Based upon Dr. Miller’s upcoming novel.
Infidelity, Betrayal, and the Road Back
Drawing from 30 years of clinical work with couples, Dr. Miller speaks honestly about what it takes to heal after betrayal — for both partners.
Finding Peace in Life's Storms
How faith and practical psychology work together to address depression, grief, and loss. Based on decades of frontline work and Dr. Miller's published book.
Where Dr. Miller Speaks
Ideal for:
Churches & sermon series
Marriage retreats & couples conferences
Men's groups & retreats
Christian counseling conferences & CEU workshops
Pastoral training events
Corporate wellness & resilience keynotes
About
Dr. Monte Miller
Licensed Clinical Psychologist · San Antonio, TX
Dr. Monte Miller, with his Master’s and Doctoral Degrees in Psychology, plus with 30 years of experience specializing in infidelity recovery, sex therapy, performance anxiety, depression, and Christian psychology. He has worked extensively with couples navigating betrayal and individuals wrestling with the deepest human fear: Am I enough to be loved?
Drawing from decades of clinical work, personal experience with loss and reconciliation, and deep Christian faith, Dr. Miller developed the Ona Question — a transformative framework that has reshaped how thousands of people see themselves, their marriages, and their relationship with God.
He is the author of Finding Peace in Life's Storms, with a set of three books forthcoming.
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